You live surrounded by many people, and there are many types of people that may be you know, the one who is selfish. The type of people like this is usually thought to himself, looking and performing a variety of ways so that he could gain an advantage for himself.
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Psychological F.Diane Barth said, "there are 2 characteristics of selfish, the first being too self-absorbed, and the second is do not have the awareness or the feeling of wanting to help others. If a person has both characters, they will not meet you unless they have a specific meaning".
These 5 traits and attitudes that make someone be selfish:
1. Manipulation
This person will do a variety of things to benefit, including lick people without interest, covering his mistakes, tried to divert the blame on other people and things are another lie.
2. Don't Care
He had no sympathy, and will not concern for the feelings of those around him, he gets what's he wanted, and they are satisfied with it. Others are not important because the main thing is his own.
3. Sly and penetrating from behind
Say a lie is not new for him. Even if had to betray a friend who never gave him an advantage, he will not hesitate to stab from behind if she knew it would give him more things. Because it does not want to look bad in the eyes of the person who gave him "something", it will be with a devious plan a variety of things to bring down others.
4. Give inevitably have strings attached
This is the main thing, and you certainly will not easily receive the gift from him. It is also not easy variety with others. If he could have it's own, why should the split with others? A selfish person is usually also a cheapskate, so they will just give you something original you have something for him.
5. Arrogant and like others subject to him
He hopes someone else can do the things he wanted. He lived with the thought, what could someone else give it to him, not vice versa. They ask for a lot of things and want a lot of things. Because he could not do it alone, it will make use of others.
It is the nature of who owned those selfish. People like this will always exist, and you must have a way to deal with them, so you did not become the victim of their skill. Observe gestures and words, and don't require if utilized.
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